I See, I See, a children’s book I never knew existed until I walked into my 7-month-old’s (at the time) bedroom to read a book to him and there on the nightstand sat this book. I have never heard of this book like Go Dog Go, Frog & Toad, Tikki Tikki Tembo, and Love You Forever. In the top right corner of the book’s cover was a sticker from Bargain Books.
“$5.00” it read.
The book is about a boy who struggles to accept the fact
that he has to get glasses because of his poor vision. When he walks into the
store, the saleswoman notices his reluctant attitude towards the specs he needs
and whispers in his ear to tell him something that transforms his perspective.
From then on, he witnesses that what she said about the glasses was true! He
embraces his additional accessory in large part because of what this saleswoman
said to him. Every page after the eventful afternoon in the glasses store is
another anecdote that there is something beautiful about wearing glasses.
This is what the saleswoman says before he puts the glasses
on:
“With glasses you will see things that other people
don’t. Special things. Just wait and see.”
As the boy’s hesitation turns into trust that these glasses
can help people see what others don’t, his optimism also grows little by
little. His faith in believing what the woman said paid dividends, and he began
to look for opportunities to see the things other don’t.
I often feel that way with God. Each day, especially in the
classroom, I deal with numerous challenges, setbacks, interruptions,
expectations unmet, disgruntled parents, misbehaving students - the list goes
on. When I manage to put on the Jesus glasses at any point in the day, it helps
me see things I wouldn’t see if I never put them on in the first place.
I think God enjoys walking with us in that daily journey.
When I submit to wearing the glasses God gives me in the form of faith and
trust in him when I see the world his way, it becomes an adventure to see how
God will show up through me and reveal his thoughts about a situation like how
the previously unseen things revealed themselves to the main character in I
See, I See.
For example, I have a 5th grade student, and we
will call him Bradley. One particular Thursday, a regular Thursday in the middle
of November, Bradley was upset that another student was picking on him about
his handwriting. He became so irritated, he belligerently expressed the
injustice he felt for being called out the way he was. Important note: Bradley
has a history of overreacting to situations by fixating on them and reeling
over the fact that he is being unfairly treated – when he is unfairly treated,
it makes sense to be frustrated, but from an emotional maturity standpoint, it is
a struggle for Bradley to cooperate as a 10-year-old when he is emotionally
unsettled. He simply becomes unglued, like a 4-year-old in a 5th
grader’s body. To make matters worse, him and his assigned group were
completing a project that was overdo because things came up when we were
supposed to finish, so any disruptions in the flow of the group project was
reason to become frustrated as a teacher.
In other words, the kindergarten level behavior exhibited
by 5th graders was not something I was prepared to confront nor was
it anywhere close to what I wanted to deal with at the end of a long day.
Without glasses, I would have reacted emotionally and would
have drawn incorrect conclusions long before approaching the bickering students
to do some fact-checking. In fact, I probably would have done know
fact-checking. Bradley would have been wrongly accused because he was the one
drawing the most attention to himself and looking at fault by becoming ubhinged
about the issue.
With glasses on, God helped me take the high road of
patience and love. I responded with wisdom – some of it tough love – empathy,
and patience. I needed God’s help. There is no way it would have ended well
without his guidance on how to discern the situation before bulldozing my way
through it.
I am grateful because the student in the wrong – or at
least what created the snowball of arguments – was not who and what I thought
it was. Seeing through the perspective of how God sees things gave me what I
needed in time of need: patience, wisdom, and gentleness- the fruits of the
Spirit - among others.
The point is, it is easy to overreact in the field of
education. Expectations are never met by 100% of the students, so the most
important tool in the classroom, I would argue, is the glasses God gives me
each day. The glasses, when I choose to wear them, gives me the fruits of the
Spirit I need to be the image of Jesus the students so desperately need.
And “desperately” is a understatement.
I wouldn’t make it in the field as long as I have if I ignored
those glasses. As Brandon Heath once sang, “Give me Your
eyes for just one second
Give me Your
eyes so I can see
Everything that I keep missin'
Give me Your love for humanity
Give me Your arms for the
broken-hearted
The ones that are far beyond my reach
Give me Your
heart for the ones forgotten
Give me Your
eyes so I can see”
Without the glasses, it is impossible to see what others don’t. It's impossible to see what God wants us to see in others. With them, I can see people the way God does, and isn’t that what we hope to do
daily?
Give those glasses a try at your workplace, home, or
wherever life takes you. They are not just designed for my classroom. It’s
free, and God will take you incredible places with them if you make a daily
decision to use them. He desires to partner with you, speak through you, and
use you to do things you couldn’t do on your own. Look no further than what he
did through Noah, Abraham, Moses, Solomon, Esther, Joseph, the disciples, Paul,
and so many more.
And at the end of the day, I guess $5.00 is quite the
bargain in the picture book world.
Wow, Josh you absolutely are nailing it on the head! Excellent points woven into the fabric of the story AND your classroom experience! Superb song by Brandon Heath which punctuated the essence of what you shared!
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